What does OneThree12 mean?
Our name reflects the Biblical picture for intentional, relational discipleship modeled by Jesus and his community. Jesus, was one man. He poured himself into three close friends and a larger group of twelve disciples. They were the greatest change makers of their time – and it started with committed relationship.
We too want to commit ourselves to impacting those in our spheres of influence and be a meaningful part of the ripple effect of Jesus’ efforts today.
Are OneThree12 coaches certified?
Life coaching success is built around Holy Spirit sensitivity, prayerful communication and intentional, thoughtful action. While there are ‘certified life coaches’, skills and approach are not universally defined.
At OneThree12 coaches undergo a rigorous, in-house training course. We teach proficiency with tools and simulate real-world coaching scenarios. What qualifies our leadership however, is that in addition to completion of coaching industry training courses, for nearly two decades we have all been coached and have coached dozens of others. The founding team has thousands of hours in the coaching chair where we have learned the subtleties and best-practices of how to assess, align and act on the work the Holy Spirit intends to do.
Will my information be kept confidential?
Absolutely. We recognize that honesty and vulnerability are prerequisites of change. What you share with your coach is confidential and anything delivered digitally remains protected for access by you and your coach alone.
How do I connect with my coach?
Coaching calls are delivered via phone or Zoom/Google Meet/Skype.
What is the cost?
Coaching requires a one-time fee of $200. This covers the DISC behavioral profile, basic administrative onboarding expenses and coach training. We also provide the book Living Forward by Daniel Harkavy and Michael Hyatt as you begin. Your coach does not receive payment for coaching. OneThree12 coaches view coaching as a disciple-making opportunity and privilege.
What is the time commitment?
The standard coaching experience runs for one year and begins with a two hour introduction call. Thereafter, coaching calls are generally once every two weeks for thirty minutes. We also believe in setting aside one full day for the development of a Life Plan. Over the course of your coaching, you should expect investment of time in following up on the action steps and activities that surface in your conversations with your coach.
What is a Life Plan?
A Life Plan is a Holy Spirit led blueprint that outlines a vision for life in all areas and defines outcomes for success in each of these. We believe that living the life God intended requires clear conviction and destinations in mind. A life plan combats the directionless, reactive schedule too many of us maintain.
Your coach will help you prepare for a Life Plan experience. During this time, you will prayerfully assess areas of life including – career, marriage, family, finances, passions, health and your faith journey. This leads to an exercise of aligning each of these current realities to God’s word and determining actions to take, or habits to maintain, to reconcile where you are with where you want to be. Your life plan becomes a priority filter tool; a target to relentlessly pursue and a blueprint for life by which you build.
Is there a Biblical basis for Life Coaching and a Life Plan?
The essence of coaching is regular asking, listening, guiding, praying, encouraging and exhortation. These are disciplines that show up throughout Scripture. OneThree12 simply packages these and ensures their consistent delivery in a one-on-one, intentional, recurring setting. Questions and action steps don’t cause transformation. God himself does that. Our job is stop, consider, pray and proactively respond.
After encouraging his friends to “make disciples of all nations” in Matthew 28:19, Jesus continues in verse 20; “…teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you.” Jesus himself expects that the lessons and example that he imparts get delivered in subsequent generations and relationships. This model of coaching is our response to that last command.
With respect to Life Planning, the Bible is clear that thoughtful preparation is a component of success. In Luke 14:28-30, scripture says: “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’ “
The Bible tells us that God has a will, plan and purpose for our lives (Jeremiah 29:11). It also teaches that when our life is rightly aligned with his purpose, he gives us the desires of our heart (Psalm 37:4). A Life Plan is a written document expressing our hopes, dreams and goals for all the major areas of our life, which we call Life Accounts. While it is prudent and inspiring to create a Life Plan, we recognize the absolute sovereignty of God over our lives. “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps” – Proverbs 16:9.
Scripture describes how Christians were created for good works (Eph. 2:10), will give an account for their purposefulness (Rom. 14:12) and need to be aware of how few, precious days there are (Ps. 90:12) to carry out God’s good, acceptable and perfect will (Rom. 12:2). A Life Plan is simply a practical tool to drive a response to these messages.
We want to finish well. So we pray, prepare and enact a plan to build what God intends us to. If important for a house, how much more important for life and legacy?
Are your coaches – counselors, mentors, accountability partners, best friends, etc?
Coaching may reflect aspects of each of these roles, but it is not defined by them. Coaching is more comprehensive. Your coach’s primary role isn’t to impart wisdom, advice or be your cheerleader. It’s to draw out of you the vision that God is laying on your heart, help you see and hear God’s voice with respect to growth and challenge you to put into practice what you’re hearing. It is also to hold you accountable to the action steps you believe God is calling you to take.
There will be times of celebration, mourning, challenging pushback and probing for clarity. All with the intent that you grow as a disciple.
Can I become a coach?
Yes, that is the idea! As you experience coaching, there will come a time when the impact you feel will compel you to journey with others. We offer coach training retreats and resources to make this a reality. Reach out to your coach to discuss next steps.